Don't know what to expect from this freewheelin' affair

Jane

Dear Jane,
Give it back to your friends by proving ot them that you can stick to your commitment. Or simply ignore them when they tease you. The choice is yours. Although, they'd respect you more if you showed willpower, and got over your chocolate addiction.

Boss groom banna chahta hai?

Dear Diana,
I am 28. Have been working here a year now. My boss is cute, polite and very fair in dealing with all team members. Having come from a job where there was always partiality, this was a huge relief. We became good friends.

In the past two months, I've noticed a change in his behaviouru00a0-- he starts conversations about what I like, common interests, mentions that we should catch a movie togetheru00a0-- in short, stuff not related to work. This began after I once mentionedu00a0 that my parents are looking for a groom for me. I wonder if he's trying to say he's interested in me?

Neena

Dear Neena,
The question is: Are you interested in him too? If so, the next time he asks you out for a movie, say yes. And then see where it goes. Just make sure that your organisation does not frown upon office romances. Also, seeing your boss is the surefire way to get you alienated at work.

Are you ready to deal with that? Also be very sure that he is not being flirty with other girls too. Ask around discreetly if he has made a move on other girls in the past. Maybe he is just looking to have some fun, and not a a relationship. Think this through and know what you are getting into before you go on that date with him.u00a0