Old is bold

Sugar Daddy Syndrome, or the desire for elder men and women, has quizzed many a mind. As its acceptance gains importance, we delve deepWhen the vigour of youth meets the skill of age, fantasies know no bounds. But then, you need to know the right tricks to excel at the game of young-old passion. We drop in, yet again, to shower you with all the gyaan. Why women dig older men Think Lolita, The Girl in the Red Velvet Swing, American Beauty. What is it that makes older men a magnet for younger women? While she craves for the skill and maturity that comes with age, he likes the raw deal the right blend of young fervour, innocence and suppleness.u00a0 Older men may not be as wild as young ones, but they surely know the tricks of the trade. They know how to flatter with poetry and pun, make every stroke a master's, and charm like a gentleman things where li'l lads often fail. It is true that women, too, sometimes want to be at the top,but when it comes to bedroom pleasures, they'd rather be driven to ecstasy than drive their man to it. Older men have a mentor-like feel about them, something that women fall for instantly. Freud says it comes out of the fact that subconsciously, they find them fatherly, and for a young woman, her father is the ultimate epitome of manlihood. Women also like to believe that a man starts respecting women more with age. He listens carefully, surrenders to her needs and behaves just fine in bed. This restrained charisma is what makes women go weak in the knees.u00a0 Why men fall for big girlsBusy being a guy is how men spend their life, at least in the earlier stages. That's why, men like women who can make them feel like a man. How will that be possible with a young girl who, herself, is an amateur? That's why the aunty-next door is always sexier than the newly-wedded wife in the bedroom. It's the desperation that guys lust for. While girls who have just received their voter's card are busy working towards size zero, men eye curves that have the right volume. Also, they know that older women will be able to 'control' the do better in bed one of their top fantasies. Young men don't like to talk much; they just want to enjoy the act a 'concern' they share with most women who're committed and looking for some adventure.u00a0 Commitment over ageA man in fifties is not as fast and furious as a guy in his twenties. However, if properly stimulated growing age can be turned into an advantage. Older men need more time to get their act right, which means more foreplay and prolonged fun. Single men and women who are sailing through forties are well 'settled', and more capable of commitment. Conversations are more engrossing, sex more caring, the future secure, and the pretensions, hardly there. Sounds like a good bet?Older people rock, says researchA study conducted in Sweden last year said that older people have lived through the change in outlook towards sexuality over the last fifty years. The research by University of Gothenburg, Sweden, examined people on attitude to sexuality, frequency of intercourse, marital status and age of first intercourse. The results showed that alternatives to marriage have gained importance over the last 30 years. Majority of the participants said that even at the age of 70, they had sex once a week and faced little problem on the libido front.u00a0 But there's a flipside, too...>>Intercourse may not be that frequent >>The older one gets, the more time it takes to achieve ecstasy>>Erection after the first ejaculation may be problematic >>If the age gap is extremely wide, chances of infidelity grow >>Others are bound to raise eyebrows and gossip>>At times, you'll have to do without the big O

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