If I tell her I love her, I risk losing her friendship!

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Dear Friend,
Why do you feel you need an abortion? Because you had a one-night stand and didn't use protection? Because you're scared of what your boyfriend will think? Or some other reason? The first step for you is to identify why you feel an abortion is necessary. If it's because you realised you made a mistake, I'm not sure that that reason is quite good enough. If you don't want to keep the baby or take care of it, you can always give it up for adoption. You run the risk of angering your boyfriend if the baby isn't his, but it already sounds like your relationship isn't going very well. So, I'd say take that chance