I'm still in love with a guy from college

Dear Diana, I met a guy in college when I was 20. I liked him a lot; he was more than just a friend. Initially he was extremely friendly but later we grew apart. I can't seem to forget him, even though it has been almost nine years. I recently learned that he is married

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— Fahimau00a0


Illustration/ Satish Acharya

Dear Fahima,
Ignore him. You made a mistake by emailing and perhaps did not expect such a harsh reply. He has his reasons to be loyal to his wife, so respect it. It looks like you have still not overcome him and have feelings for him. Remember this was all futile as this guy did not care for you or your feelings. You need to move on. You, too, are 29 and need to get on with your life. It might be tough for you but you have to banish any thoughts about him. He was not worth it. Avoid him like the plague!

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