I am 33, have lived in Mumbai all my life. Last year, I had an arranged marriage to a girl from my parents' hometown in central Maharashtra
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Dear Friend,
I guess what men should be turned on by, is the sound of his partner enhoying herself during the act. That tells him that he's pushing all the right buttons and will egg him on to do a better job.
He wants us to skip the use of condoms
Dear Diana,
We're both 18 and virgins. After dating for three months, we've got to kissing and cuddling and now he's trying to convince me to lose my virginity to him. He has also said that he doesn't want to use a condom because it feels better without it and because he wants our first time to be amazing. What do you thing I should do?
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Dear Friend,
If your virginity is a big deal for you, lose it to someone you love completely or are most comfortable with. Any young guy that says he doesn't want to use a condom is just asking for trouble. There's unplanned pregnancies and STDs to worry about and you really don't want to worry about that when you want it that much. Besides aren't you a bit young to be wanting to take risks. Trust me, not being safe while having sex is not worth it.
