Dear Diana,
I am a married woman in love with a guy for the past year. He is also married and has kids. My paramour knows everything about me, but I don't know much about him. He says he is in a bad marriage. He has not even showed his wife's picture to me while I have told him everything about myself. He's the smart one in our affair. Why is he so guarded?
— Kiran


Illustration/Amit Bandre 

Dear Kiran,
First of all you are playing with fire and get ready to get scorched when your husband and folks find out about your affair. You are a fool to trust him and tell him all the details of your personal life when he is so guarded about his life. It appears that he is using you to satisfy his urges due to a bad marriage. One day he will be bored and walk away leaving you in the lurch. Be wary of this man.