'My girlfriend found out my fetish for female clothes...'

Dear Diana,
I am 42 years old and a divorcee. My husband left me after I found out about his extramarital affair. We didn't have kids so I'm really battling loneliness more than anything else. On top of that, my mother passed away recently. I'm certain one of the reasons behind her early demise was my unsuccessful marriage. I am suffering from diabetes and blood pressure. Would it be a good idea to pursue love at this age and condition?
— Subiya

Dear Subiya
You need to immerse yourself in some creative activity or anything you like doing to keep yourself occupied. Make friends and hang out with them. There is no need moping about the past, you can not change that. If you find love, all the better. Also, get yourself registered on a matrimonial site. They will help you find a right match keeping your age in mind.